A Book Club Meeting at E. Fry

Hi all - Lindsay (Program Coordinator) here!

Left to Right: Lindsay, Meagan, Kate and Sue

Left to Right: Lindsay, Meagan, Kate and Sue

On Wednesday I had the chance to go to my first book club meeting since I started the role of Program Coordinator with BCFI. Our wonderful volunteers at The Elizabeth Fry Society of Toronto’s book club invited me to join the meeting on September 18th. E. Fry is an organization that provides services and residence to criminalized women and their families. They provide counselling, employment services, community support programs and housing services. Learn more at: https://efrytoronto.org/

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In preparation for the meeting, I bought and dove into “A Piece of Cake” by Cupcake Brown, the book that would be discussed at the meeting. I was advised that it was a tough read - a memoir of abuse, loss, drugs and survival. After reading a couple of chapters, I thought “wow, tough is an understatement.” Cupcake Brown loses her mother at a young age, and when her step-father and other family members are not permitted to care for her, she is thrown into the foster system. With the abuse faced in foster homes, she is forced to run away several times, putting her in dangerous situations involving sexual assault, homelessness, narrow escapes from the law, and drug and alcohol abuse. Her story educates the reader on the problems that exist within the foster-care system, the realities of drug addiction and how difficult it can be to keep getting up when you are constantly being pushed down. The following 10+ years of her life seem to get worse and worse and as a reader you worry it won’t ever turn around. Luckily, once she decides for herself that she is ready for change and recovery after truly feeling she has hit rock bottom, things begin to look up and her story is truly remarkable. 

At this meeting we had three book club members, three volunteers, an E. Fry staff member and myself. I was interested to learn about the book club members’ experiences reading this book - I wondered - as someone who personally has not lived with drug addiction or in conflict with the law, would it be tougher for me to read her story, or tougher for someone who had similar lived experiences. Many of the book club members found this book relateable and understood her experiences on a different level than those of us who had grown up differently. It seemed as though for some members, reading Cupcake’s story was a comfort and reassurance instead of a story of systemic failure and horror. For other members, it was tough to read these experiences and picture them so vividly because they were so familiar. 

In just 90 minutes I felt I had a stronger appreciation for the book and had learned so much from both the book and the book club members and facilitators at E. Fry. It is definitely a book I would recommend without hesitation to anyone who wishes to deepen their understanding of systemic inequality and drug addiction. While it is tough to read about many of the horrors Cupcake faced, it is ultimately an impactful story of strength, love and hope. The book’s weight and intensity only make it more necessary that readers who have had the privilege of living a different life pick this book up and get reading.

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